Showing posts with label building success strength. Show all posts
Showing posts with label building success strength. Show all posts

RU Available for success?



R U ready to be magnificent and see success as "this is what you do"?  It takes tenacity, it takes certainty and you are very likely to wrestle with your ego, your reputation and unhinge a lot of thinking that is not working for you.
You desire, You decide....to be magnificent, be marvellous, be the big You
Success is what it looks like when you are on your path, the path you choose and it reflects your self worth and as a wonderful benefit , it helps others to reach their best.

Success is more about what is going on inside 
than 
what you can strive for on the outside.
Success starts with You
and
Is highly contagious to the group.

Today: 4 focus points on building success strength

1. Priority Focus

Where would we be without procedure, policy, SOP and our good and bad habits in our lives?  They do have a place, but they are not the priority.  They are there to reduce risk, to limit the need to re-think and a consequence is to harden our resistance to change.  Focus your thinking on  your priorities. The priorities that what will make the daily shift for better in what you do, what you say and what you think.

2. Alignment

I find there is so much chatter in its many forms, inside our head and in our world, from our past, to the maps we create to view the outside and everyday we take on more. Give yourself the time to review, sort and organise this information into useful, trivia, useless. Check yourself for what you are feeling, thinking and saying and align yourself to what will work for you.  


Useful
Trivia
Useless
Healthy, giving, energising thoughts and words that are adding value to your success
No immediate impact on your path. You have recognised it does not fit into useful or useless. Not something to focus on or keep.
f you are listening to putdowns like "I doubt I can do this", that is in the Useless pile and not worth keeping. 


3. Certainty

"when you want to accomplish something, anything you must first expect it of yourself" Wayne Dyer
It is fundamental that you have a certainty, an unwavering belief that what you want to achieve you first must know it will work out.  There is something very electric about being around people who have such a certainty in their lives and make it happen.

4. Daydream Believer

This may seem contrary to how we have been taught. It was my number one thing for getting into trouble at school. "Lisa, stop daydreaming and get back to work!" When did daydreaming get to be so unpopular? Daydreaming  uses your imagination, clicks into your emotions and shows you what is possible. There are many pluses to daydreaming so I say daydream.  Your daydreams ignite your possibilities and propel you to make yourself available for success.





Promoting a Healthy Self Esteem

Imagine you are sitting on a hill, looking out over a beautiful scene

Think about the last few days


  • Have you made a choice that you think could be better but you didn't because of the other person?
  • Have you stood up for yourself and taken responsibility?
  • Do you love, respect and trust yourself enough to have the courage to look at what you bring to this world?

&

  • How would your life change if you had a high powered healthy self esteem?

It takes a lot of self to recognise what you bring to this world and a lot of self to look at your shadow. 
Do you want to be someone who is upfront? 
Are you willing?

Here are some markers to help a healthy self esteem and in no particular order and it is a beginning. 

When you start, I know that you will seek out more because as you respect yourself, your self esteem will raise your standards and what you value will be clearer and defined.

1. Think of one area in your life you would be willing to change by the end of the day? That when you did, it would empower you. Hold to that. Keep it small and stick to it.  You are starting to gain momentum. 

2.  Strengthen your intuition, remember intuition is not a gift, it is a skill. A skill that you practise.  You will walk the unknown to build your self esteem. Your ability to hear your intuition is dependent on your self esteem.

3. Judging others can be a mirror of how you see yourself. Question yourself as to why I am judging that person.  Is this thinking you are carrying value to you? Keep tabs on your private agendas and be upfront. Your self esteem will bloom when there is honesty.

The greatest gift you can give yourself is a healthy self esteem.
The greatest gift you can give to the world is a healthy you.

When genuine self love and self worth are present and alive with us.
We attract love and respect from others.

Carol Tuttle